I think part of our wish for less flesh is really a wish to be less burdened by the vulnerability of being VISIBLE, or to be relieved of the burdened of being missed. If you have the kind of body that precedes you upon every entry of every room, you have a body that eclipses other aspects of your personality. We know innately, that in many moments we are seen simply as ‘ the woman with big boobs’ or ‘ the fat lady’.